Nigerian gospel artist, Tina Johnson takes time out of her busy schedule to counsel women on the cons of marrying a man who lives in a family house.
In a post via Tina’s Facebook page, she highlighted the influence of family members on such a marriage and how it may shorten the life of the union.
While recommending the idea of at least settling in a one-room apartment away from the family, she emphasized that marriage shouldn’t be considered if the man isn’t able to afford one.
The gospel singer who seemed to be speaking from experience stated that her opinion may not sound accurate now but it would be in the best interest of any woman to listen.
“My Sister, don’t marry a Man Living in a Family House, you will never enjoy that Marriage. I may sound Stupid and senseless but believe me the day you’re married into a family house you’ll remember this post. Even flies in the house will abuse you including your in-laws.
Until you find yourself in this situation you may not understand this post. Sister, if he doesn’t have any money to rent at least one room apartment, then you guys have no business getting married.
How will you guys now cope with family expenses? Don’t be deceived, marriage needs money.
The day your husband married you into family house, both of you have lost RESPECT and dignity in that family.
Even if it’s a room it will be much more better than living in a family house, for peace to reign.
If a man still lives in his parents house, tell him to get an apartment before paying your BRIDE PRICE. Statistics shows that, the wives end up unhappy, caged and frustrated.
No matter how good your in-laws are, pray you don’t have any reason to live with them. They will show you shege. It’s a matter of TIME. Just give them TIME. Visit them, let them visit you.
I repeat, Please don’t marry a man living in a family house, you will never enjoy that marriage to its fullest.
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8 Responses
In fact,living in a family house will not make you serious,am talking of the man now,you need to live up to your responsibility as a man.living in a family house makes you look as if you can not afford your rentage or you con not take care of your family
In fact,living in a family house will not make you serious,am talking of the man now,you need to live up to your responsibility as a man.living in a family house makes you look as if you can not afford your rentage
Like seriously it’s not the best,cos Believe me or Not fault finding is certain.If you like tell your wife to be indoors Always,fault will still be dragging her,then problem starts.So the best is to stay in a different location,then come nd visit from time to time.
I can’t dispute your opinion base on your experience or what you have seen but to be candid been living with family members is not the crime it depend on kind of family you marry and them if you are good to your husband family no matter what your husband might have do in bad way these are the people that will fight for you on your behalf
Though I may not counter your opinion because you are entitled to it, and you may also be speaking from experience. But I have this to say.
Living in a family house as a married man with your family is not bad, nor condemnable. It all depends on:
* The type of family you are married to
*The kind of man you are married to
And finally
The understanding.
I know of a family where four men live together with there wives and children. Till date, and there is no issue.
Yeah is total true! Ladies will not enjoy the husband well most especially the husband because the family will be seeing the wife fault always
I agree with you don’t married a man living in a family house for me as a man is an abuse to me because living in your father house and get married
Hmmm! Marrying into family house is not really the best, Bible says “a man should leave his father and mother and be alone with his wife”