A Nigerian lawyer, Ebikebuna Aluzu has said that only “defeated and inferior” men pay bride price or marry women they didn’t disflower.

Dear Kings, The moment you find yourself paying bride price or getting married to a woman you didn’t disvirgin, that is an admission of inferiority,” he wrote in a Facebook post on Saturday.

Inferiority to other men who had her before you.

You’re literally paying for what those other men got for free. And denying this is just a coping mechanism

When you marry such a woman, you’re accepting that you’re such an optionless man whose only chance at mating and reproducing is by paying for what others got for free.

What exactly are you paying for that the other men didn’t see fit to pay for?

There’s no amount of rationalization that can dispute that fact.

Surely enough, you’ll convince yourself “there’s more to a wife than just hymen”. 

Well she still offered those other qualities to those other men for free – she cooked, cleaned, respected, supported them at some point even gave them better styles because she was younger than she’s giving you.

You can deny it all you want, but the harsh reality is you’re a defeated man who settled for other men’s leftovers.

It was just your turn, don’t make her your own.