A young Nigerian man who goes by the handle @Darkbreedd has opened up about his heartbreaking experience of discovering that his ex-girlfriend was cheating on him while actively assisting with his job search.
According to the man’s emotional account, they had been dating since their university days, and his girlfriend, who had Lupus, played a significant role in his life.
During his 300-level days, his girlfriend was actively assisting him in obtaining job opportunities and internships as a software engineer.
However, the shocking revelation came when he discovered that, despite the sacrifices and loyalty he believed were foundational to their relationship, his girlfriend was cheating on him with a medical doctor.
The doctor, who had a fiancee, allegedly concealed his relationship status, referring to the girlfriend as a “close friend.”
The young man expressed his confusion over the situation, emphasizing the irony that the person with an autoimmune disease was engaged in infidelity.
He shared how the doctor’s fiancee eventually discovered the affair, leading to a breakup and leaving @Darkbreedd’s girlfriend heartbroken.
In his words;
“People need to wake up o. Girl i was dating while i was in 300 level was everywhere on this space soliciting and looking for jobs/internships for me as a software engineer while also cheating on me with a doctor.
Sacrifice and loyalty are two worlds apart. You need both. Every-time i tried to have a conversation about her relationship with him.
She’d manipulate me with the amount of sacrifice and work she’s putting into ours. Crazzy times man???? I need that shit and i’m grateful for it.
Ngl man Things like this will open your eyes. You wont carry trust from 2023 into 2024 without confirming to see if they still deserve your trust. Crazzy part is she had Lupus.
I couldn’t wrap my head around how we were both making sacrifices but the one with the auto immune disease was the one cheating ???????? Make it make sense.
Doc had a fiancée who broke up when she found about about my girl. They had printed out their wedding invitation card but my own girl wasn’t aware she was his fiancée, Doc never mention, he just always said “close friend”
Lady broke up without saying a word, it broke the Doc. He dropped my own girl, my own girl figured she was his side piece and play thing. Same thing she was doing to me.
Funny how she kept telling me everything as a form of “reassurance” but i was reading through the line. She was heart broken and i could see it but i couldn’t break up on the spot coz she had Lupus.
Her emotions and her health are tied together. So i had to wait a little for her to heal while also dropping reassurance from my own then i broke up.
She went quiet for some days, very sure they rushed her to the hospital. I was sure her flares got triggered from my text
I didn’t bother texting to know what’s up coz i didn’t care anymore. Texted me later and was begging, “can we still be friends” “Did i do something” Then switched up on me for “doing her bad”
Narcissist oshi ???? I remember trying to cheat back but na. I couldn’t. The disadvantages were more on her end. Someone that has lupus?? She go just die throwway from the heartbreak. I was being kind anyways.”
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People need to wake up o.
Girl i was dating while i was in 300 level was everywhere on this space soliciting and looking for jobs/internships for me as a software engineer while also cheating on me with a doctor.
Sacrifice and loyalty are two worlds apart. You need both
— Phorever ???? (@Darkbreedd) January 9, 2024
18 Responses
yea those two sacrifice and loyalty have their own dimensions but are needed in a relationship to work
don’t give up and strive on
just console your self and move on
u should thank the lord that it was revealed to you before u left school
this is disheartening to hear
u know in this world it is not everybody that his our legit friend
Be aware of infidelity, if she is cheating now after marriage she will continue ooo. Run oo, make them no hold you
Obviously she dated the doctor because of money. Unfortunately for her she was dumped and lost a good man who really cared for her. May God deliver the youth of nowadays from discontentment and greed
Did he bother to ask her why she cheated on him while trying to get him a job. Funny life ohh
Nawa ooo!! Things happen only ladies understand what they truly want
She can’t just cheat on him without any reason
There must be a good reason y she decided to cheat on him
This is one the thing that can make her cheat on him
The girl is in search of job for her guy!
Breakfast serve on a gold plate welldone happy newyear ha wahala
You didn’t satified her that’s why i said women know the mumu button to any man.
So of the relationship people keep, is just a waist of time
Even though it’s in the mind of the woman to sacrifice for her man it’s still not right
What do you think or what do you expect before?,a girl helping you to look for a job for you,what do you expect?you as a man,you are to look for a job yourself,not your girlfriend
Well there are lots of sacrifice woman always made just to make their man happy
If she cheated because of getting you a job is bad be we can understand maybe she under pressure but otherwise run ooo
It is hard to feel fine with such an heavily thought like that
So what he is going to do about the knowledge now? The ball is in your court.