A Nigerian lady named @Simplegbemi took to social media to blast men who who calculate their expenses on dates.
Taking to her X page, Gbemi revealed that dhe’s frustrated by men who calculate how much they spend instead of just treating her.
According to her, being at a table with such man feels super awkward.
“I hate being on a table with a guy that calculates everything. If you don’t have money stay at home pls..it’s fvcking embarrassing ????????????♀️,” she wrote.
Her post has sparked debate online.
While some people agreed with the lady, saying they couldn’t stand stingy dates, others roasted her for acting entitled.
One guy identified as abazwhyllzz pointed out that paying shouldn’t mean a free pass to rack up a huge bill. What if he only planned to spend N10,000 but she orders double-priced drinks? Should he just cough up extra cash?
He said: “He shouldn’t calculate the bill? If his budget for the date is like 10k and you end up eating above his pocket, if he asked you to pay the balance, do you have money to complete it?”
Another man, TokyosBite mocked her for expecting lavish dates, saying real life isn’t like fancy movies.
He shared story of how his friends nearly overpaid for drinks by miscalculating the total.
He said: “On Saturday, my friends and I were out. Me and one had two bottles of a drink that cost 1200 each. We had two bottles each of the drinks we picked… tell me why 1200x 2 became 3000?We almost paid 6000 for a 4800 drink. Now you see why everyone should calculate everything, honey?”
See the post and other reactions below;
Irunnia_ said: “He will take you to a date
He will do all the talking
He will do all the paying
He still isn’t allowed to calculate what you guys ate. Nigerian men are trying. It’s not easy.”
bigtimiszn noted: “What’s amusing is how you managed to make it to 2024 with this kind of brain. Like, how on earth did you enter 2024? I thought God censored people.????????????.
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10 Responses
Seriously ????
He needs to calculate so that he won’t be stranded
And ladies like are the ones that do reck home’s
Women of today needs money, they use date as their source revenue so if you don’t have money stay away
May God help these our generation because Many really lack understanding
But it not good to be caculating the expence all time nah, but if the woman think it easy she should go and find anoda guy
Money no be by force and if you want am by force spiritual bad things go be involved
You are very ungrateful human being,this lady is not ashamed of herself,she doesn’t have money and she is bragging,if you have money then pay for yourself
She doesn’t behave differently from a hooker, that follow you just to get paid.
sister go sleep na this kind people the wreck house
de way economy de u want person to spend money any how go try am u go see the results
kaka no like this
Pls Some Ladies Of Our Days Should Borrow Some Leaf From The Submissive Ones.
Lolz ???????????????? this life self need calculation pass anything…