A Nigerian lady educates others on why men consider the option of taking a second wife and why it is the best step to take in a marriage.
A Facebook user identified as Florence Chinyere Ogolo took to the comment section of a post regarding a man making moves to marry a second wife right after his wife’s delivery.
According to the lady, women are often the factors behind a man’s decision to take a new wife, while referencing dwindling peace in the household.
She further added that some factions of men prefer polygamy without a reason while insisting that women losing physical form also plays a role in this decision.
“Am not married yet But second wife are the best. For your husband to sought for a second wife that means u are a pain on his neck. Either feeling that u have arrived after giving him a son, or you no longer respect or give him peace. Something is really wrong about Or wat he ordered is no longer wat he got. And above all, there are men who love two wives so We cant erase that,” she wrote.
Reactions trailing why men consider taking a second wife
karameltoppings said: “Exactly. So wives should be allowed second husbands too when their first husbands behave like this.”
teeto__olayeni opined: “I laugh as someone form a polygamous home ????????????????. My dear you will see what your mouth cannot say. All of these you have mentioned might be what the man told you and boom when you enter you go see shege,shege banza and also make your children fight battles they know nothing about. POLYGAMOUS HOUSE IS WAR UNLIMITED.”
biola_cokerlee noted: “Alot of people have been broken by disoriented families and backgrounds.”
mollijudy wrote: “And third wife nko? Fourth wife nko? ???????? Dey play even with all the four wives, side chics go still follow una join body. Dey play. ????????????.”
8 Responses
You are partly right, what if the second wife comes with her own bad behavior? How many wife are now going to marry? Good and meaningful communication is the key that opens happy marriage.not the other way round
That is because the women changes, at the earliest stage everything will be fine,but as time goes on,maybe the man just do one little thing the next thing you will hear is that she will never respect the man again
In all cases,you can communicate your spouse and Observe the changes carefully.Some woman are too stubborn I KNOW,But Oga what if the second Woman changes to worse After marrying her.how many troubles can you DEAL With.Survival in the country is Already TROUBLE ENOUGH.
Any Man that love to marry two wives is a lazy man because he knows that the two wives will be dragging each other who he will love more
You are partly right, what if the second wife comes with her own bad issues? How many issues can you cope with? Good and meaningful communication is the key that opens happy marriage.
Although in some cases it easy for man but not to lie been marry two wive bring unrest among the wife or fighting between the children of both wife,sometimes it lead death.
That’s is arrant nonsense , if you are to be a woman will you too advice your husband to marry second wife., hmmm
Yes My lady your right women should listen to what you are saying and adjust their lives a woman will be broke a man will come and marry you a woman will not have any thing a man will come and marry you, and try by all means to provide for the family, some of them when the man comes back home, what he will get from the woman is pains am not advocating for polygamy