Controversial podcaster, Toke Makinwa opens up on why cheating in a relationship or marriage is no longer an absolute deal breaker to her like it used to be.
In a podcast released on Thursday, Toke Makinwa, who accused her ex-husband, Maje Ayida of being a serial cheat, shared her perspective on infidelity over the years.
She mentioned that with age, she has come to realize that women may find it easier to cheat, and the primary reason some refrain is due to self-restraint.
In her words;
“I think a lot of women need to reject the stigma. If I cheat, it’s okay for the man to do the same to me.
“I feel like I have gotten to a place in my life where you can’t shame the shameless. If I cheat tomorrow and you want to leave I will respect you. If you want to stay, don’t use it to taunt me because I have won the crown of a cheater.
“If I’m going to be very honest, cheating is no longer a deal breaker for me. It used to be; when I was younger, I would never have been able to say these. I would have said if he cheats, I’m putting him back in the street.
“As I grew older, I realized men cheat, women cheat. It’s easier for a woman to cheat, it’s self restraint that stops us. The reason why I’m not quick to put you out is I might be the first person to cheat on you. Forgive me as I have forgiven you.”
8 Responses
So you cheat every day that means you are ashawo ashawo no hide am
You are not ashamed of yourself to come out bold to the public, to vomit these rubbish.
Hnmmmmmmmm but sha cheating is not a do or die affair
When you enter a relationship with maturity and open mind, cheating doesn’t threaten you
As a woman,you must devolt yourself to your husband only,because no tradition allows in Nigeria,it has dangerous consequences,that is why women should be more careful
What is all this must everything come online Mrs cheatee
If you want to cheat go out there and cheat, stop looking for validation from people. If you cheat you son against yourself,not to anyone.
Because it was a secret there is no secret cover for long time